If reworking or covering up your tattoo is not an option, then you can look at laser removal. This is a very effective method of removal because it leaves little or no evidence of hyperpigmentation or scarring. Unfortunately, this method is very expensive. It would be advisable to use it as a last resort.
A tattoo artist will only go as far as making some suggestions for you. You are entirely responsible for the design or type of tattoo you get. Ensure that the piece you decide to go with will make you happy and proud for the rest of your life. The best tattoos are not cheap. The cheap ones are not even worth the ink they are made from. You may need to do some travelling to get to a good artist.
Take some time to weigh your options before getting a tattoo. Since these designs are permanent, it would be a good idea to go for a design that you wouldn’t mind living with for the rest of your life. If you have to include any wording in your design, keep it open-ended.